Fortunately, this particular branch of the Dekle line didn't die with William; he was a father prior to the Civil War, and his children lived on, including Thomas Henry Dekle. Thomas married Susan Elizabeth Wilder, who was born on December 27th. Interestingly, my mom would eventually become Susan Elizabeth Wise, with the exact same initials. I too have the initials SEW, although obviously my S stands for Sarah. My birthday, however, is December 29th. But this is once again sidetracking; it's not even of particular significance, I just find it interesting. Thomas and Susan had their share of children as well, producing James Orin Dekle. James married Zelma Lee Perry, and they had a handful of children, including James Orin Dekle, Jr, in 1910, better known as J.O.
By now, I'm sure you've realized that at some point this lineage will change from Dekle to Wise and I'll throw myself in. Indeed, J.O. was my great-grandfather, whose eldest daughter is my grandmother, whose only daughter is my mother.
Although different generations moved around the South, they primarily remained in Georgia for several generations. J.O. was in the army, and as a result the family lived in numerous locations. But eventually, he returned to Savannah. When people ask why I'm in Savannah for graduate school, there are only two answers: 1) because SCAD is a good art school, and 2) because my family is from here, and it's a beautiful place. If I'm going to be away from home, I may as well be in a place that has been home to my family for hundreds of years.
I work in the Lucas Theatre, which is celebrating its 90th birthday this December. A little old lady came in this evening, who couldn't have been any younger than 80, and struck up a conversation with my co-worker Sara and myself (yes, the two running the concessions stand tonight were Sarah-spelled-correctly and Sara-missing-an-h...although the lady chose to differentiate between us as Sarah-with-dark-brown-hair and Sara-with-light-brown-hair). She commented how she had been in Savannah all her life, and the more historic she got, so did the town. She praised SCAD for its contributions in renovating and rebuilding the community, and asked if we were SCAD students. Because we both are, she figured (correctly) that neither of us were from here. However, I informed her, my grandma and her family were from here.
So the lady asked what my family's name was, and I told her Dekle. She thought for a moment and said that sounded very familiar. She told me that she had known a girl when she was younger who had dated a man named Dekle. She couldn't recall what his first name was, but said that he was a very fine fellow.
The thing with the Dekle family line is that all Dekles in America can be traced back to the same common ancestor, that German immigrant John Leonard.
So this lady who had known a Dekle at some point, who dated but didn't marry her friend, would have been related to me in some way or another. I'd say it's a small world, but I've had enough interesting little connections such as this that they no longer surprise me.